![]() There are no moral police in a massage parlour which makes it feels like there is a certain level of acceptance for infidelity. Otherwise, a massage parlour is where a partner might end up.įrom the many conversations I heard, it felt like it was a man’s right to have sex and if he wasn’t getting it at home then it was OK for him to be there. I felt that as a woman there was this pressure to get married, have children, look amazing after children, take care of them and a partner and still have the energy to have lots of sex. Another single man did not hold back telling me he thought some men were there because their wives were not as attractive anymore and not giving them enough sex at home.Īt some point during the visit, I started to feel defeated. One was married with children and had a job on the side to fund his sexual habits without anyone finding out. I also briefly managed to speak to one or two clients. His career and marriage crumbled once his antics were known. Tiger Woods was accused of having affairs with multiple women, including prostitutes during his marriage. It was almost as though what happens in this building has nothing to do with their wives or their relationships and was just about a service. She also gave them relationship advice - happy wife, happy life. She asked them in a casual conversation if they were married and I could hear them hesitate. She was talking to me, and also talking to two men in the waiting room about the services they were after. They come here to have a woman involved, to have a threesome.”īefore I walked through the doors of the massage parlour, I chatted with Ronny a few times on the phone. I’ve had to play the game where a client has called me saying I’m coming in with her but pretend you have never met me. ![]() He’s not going to make out that he’s been coming here but he’s going to put it in her head, let’s do something different, let’s go to a massage parlour. ![]() If you have a couple that is doing a lot of sex, they might both show up here. I freak out that they can pull out photos of the kids and start talking to me about their children. “I get a lot of men here when their wives are pregnant and I find it funny that they are then quite happy to tell me that. “I think there is a combination” confesses Ronny. Are men in relationships just not getting sex at home? The million dollar question has always been why people cheat. We have eight girls on at one time, eight girls only and out of the clients that we get in here, 50 per cent of them are doing extras in the room.”īy extras she means either oral or penetration sex. We are different from others because we also legally carry a brothel licence. We offer happy endings, playful touching and erotic massage. How does it work? Ronny explains, “We are a massage parlour. In the time I spent hiding in the office or sneaking around the many rooms, I couldn’t help wonder about the men and their relationship status and if I might know their partners or wives. Ronny also later informed me that 80 per cent of these day clients were either in a relationship or married. Is that because they don’t want the 10 per cent surcharge? No, they can afford it, they are living within their means. Ronny, the woman who manages this particular parlour during the day informed me that, “Days are all cash, work that out. While I don’t have a problem with transactional sexual contact (paying for pleasure), some facts got under my skin. Men were walking in one of two entrances like they were picking up a snack from the local cafe at lunch. At the brothel, it was very discreet and felt like those who were in the rooms were there for quite some time.Īt the massage parlour, even though I couldn’t see the client’s faces, I could hear the phone constantly ringing, the buzzer from the door going as each new customer walked in and could see the outlines of bodies from the security cameras in the office where I was hiding. I have previously visited a high-class brothel, but there was something different about this place and the volume of people that frequented it. You can turn a shoulder and think it will never happen to you, or you can open your eyes and work on what needs improving and discuss what needs to be addressed.įor a recent podcast exploring sex addiction, I found myself at 12pm on a Thursday at a local massage parlour in Sydney, and I’m not talking about a plush day spa. I’m not trying to downplay this issue, but we need to be more aware of the topics surrounding infidelity.
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